I (your regular blogger) am traveling this week, so in my stead we’ve got a great guest post from another law student leader in LSRJ….
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This is a slight departure from the current events/political slant usually taken by this blog. It’s more personal in nature- I’ve been thinking about what the connection is between being a law student and being a reproductive justice advocate, and this is one of those connections for me. The thought stemmed from a discussion I had with my law professor who led the legal clinic I worked in last semester, which provided services for low-income families:
Law professor: you have a really great, distinctive counseling style. Where did that come from?
Lowly law student: hmmm…actually, it came from working in an abortion clinic.
I started working in the clinic right after college, while trying to figure out the next steps in my life. I was a counselor. Every day the waiting room would fill with women and girls, mostly pregnant and not wanting to be. I would meet with them after their lab work and sonogram confirmed the pregnancy and how far along they were. It was my job to learn about their situations, discuss their options, and support their decision- in short, to be an advocate. Here’s what it taught me that will make me a better lawyer:
• Start with an open ended-question. Both at the abortion clinic and the legal clinic, that was usually, “Could you tell me about what brought you here today?” Allowing people to tell their story is incredibly important.
• People in crisis need someone to be calm. Having an abortion can be an incredibly stressful experience, and so can walking into a lawyer’s office for the first time. Many women seeking an abortion, and many people seeking the help of a lawyer, have been living in perpetual crisis for some time. Providing a measured, sympathetic presence is one of the most important things an advocate can do.
• The best way to figure out what’s really going on is just to let someone talk, with an occasional question or reflection. Immediately launching into a speech, a list of options, or interrupting someone is a sure way to mask the true situation and shut someone down.
• A problem does not stand on its own. A woman may come into the clinic because she is dealing with an unplanned pregnancy, but may also be dealing with other issues, such as lack of child care, an ill parent, or an abusive relationship. These problems may be keeping her from being able to deal with the immediate problem. The same thing happens in legal situations- a client may come into a lawyer’s office for a divorce, a will, or to sell a piece of property, but is simultaneously dealing with multiple other issues. It is the responsibility of the advocate to find out what else is going on, and address the problems together, because that’s how they got to be problems in the first place.
• Time constraints are real. Sometimes you might have only 15 minutes with a client. However, when working at the abortion clinic I learned to never be afraid to ask the client to come back before taking action. If your instinct says, “something isn’t right here,” you’re probably correct. At the abortion clinic it often meant that someone (a boyfriend, a husband, a mother) was pressuring the woman into having an abortion, and she wasn’t ready yet. In a legal context, it could mean that you haven’t had time to fully explore what is going on with the client, and if someone needs to end the meeting, you should make a follow-up appointment rather than rushing into something without all the information.
• Sometimes you have to ask for help. If there’s a situation you don’t know how to handle, there’s almost always someone to talk to about it.
• This isn’t about the advocate, it’s about the client. Trust their judgment. They’re the one who has to live with the decision.
So there you go. Want to be a better lawyer? Work in an abortion clinic.